Kate's Little Nook

buki (ina, my little sister) and me were eating at kfc sm yeesterday, august 30, 2007. this was how our conversation went: kate: bok, gwapo o, sa imo likod. tan-awa. intsik. buki: (ni lingi sa luyo niya) o, taas ug ilong. kate: pero minyo na lang. naa man singsing. buki: ai, magbuwag pa bitaw na sa iyang asawa. kate: huh? (then i asked her..) ganahan ka magbuwag si daddy ug si mama? buki: dili kate: nganu man? buki: dili lang ko ganahan. ikaw? kate: okey ra ko bisan unsa. unya kay badlungon man gud si daddy. kate: sultii ing na dili magpabadlong. buki: ai, dili ko. dili man na maminaw sa ako. kate: kang kinsa pa man diay siya maminaw? buki: sa imo. kate: nganu ka ingon man ka ana? buki: basta lang. maminaw man na siya sa imu. kate: kay mama ai. buki: nah, samot. dili na maminaw ka mama. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- and then our topic went on to the last known ...

flirting -- as defined by wikipedia, is a form of human interaction, usually expressing a sexual or romantic interest in the other person.  it can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact.  it may be one-sided or recirpocated. flirting is often used as a means of expressing intrest and gauging the other person's interest in courtship, which can continue into long term relationships.  alternatively, it may simply be a prelude to casual sex with no continuing relationship. in other situations, it may be done simpy for immediate entertainment, with no intention of developing any further relatioship.  this type of flirting sometimes faces disapproval from others, either because it can be misinterpreted as more serious, or it may be viewed as "cheating" if the person is already in a romantic relatioship with someone else. people who flirt may speak and act in a way that suggests greater intimacy than is generally considered appropriate to the r...

funny, well, not actually. just saying that these particular wordings in the song hit me: i've been living with a shadow overhead i've been sleeping with a cloud above my bed i've been lonely for so long trapped in the past, i can't seem to move on i've been hiding all my hopes and dreams away just incase i ever need em again someday i've been setting aside time to clear a little space of the corners of my mind ---when it comes to love, everyone of us have an opinion or two. i recently read a friend's blog entry. an old topic. but each opinion paints a different kind of picture. we all have a piece of that bug. although mine was really a disappointing experience, i can say that i am glad i did experience it. and pity to those who haven't. some say i've been bitter after the break-up. hell, yeah i was! who woudn't be? with what i've been through. and they said it was the choice i made. good heavens it was! ---for a time, i have be...

come to think of it, one can get a lesson from people engaging in illicit affairs. they appreciate the value of time.  every meeting, every time they have for each other is time well-spent, knowing that, somehow, it could be their last time together.  why the last time together? because everything between them is illegal, unlawful, everything is not meant to be hence, they spend it as if they're never gonna see each other again.    i wish people would have that outlook in life ( me included). like spending one's day as if it is their last. then maybe, just maybe, they could have spent life meaningfully, every second of it. one need not enter into an illicit affair, please, i am not promoting that. just change life the way you see it, do not take it for granted. i should be telling my self this because i take my life for granted. well, just sort of a reminder to everyone.  ciao!

my circle of friends from the college of law, from usc to usj-r. who says law students are boring? we know how to party, get drunk from sun down 'til sun up, and we sip coffee like nuts. hahaha. thanks guyz... you make law school less stressful and more enjoyable.

the reason for my existence, the reason for living

     since high school, i have been a "shock absorber" of lovelorn people. by shock absorber, i meant that i have always been available to hear my friends' heartaches. yes, i hear heartaches of different sorts. most of them from my guy friends. at times, i just lend my ear and even my shoulder  and at times, i offered tidbits of advices even though i don't really have enough experience to back up the ones i gave.      all they really needed (especially the guys) were just someone to hear them out.      being a shock absorber took me to some kinds of emotions and even introduced me to some painful ones. in college, i hurt the one person who could have been serious to me for the simple reason that he was always been and ONLY a friend to me. i helped him out with the current person he was eyeing for, encouraging him to go on and never be afraid of showing the person how he felt for her. unknowingly, his eyes tu...

     or my alcohol tolerance level rather...     i noticed it's getting lower and lower...     i first tasted alochol when i was in second year high school. it was followed when we went to the beach after the school year with my barkada. i seldom drank after that and even during my college days.     i started drinking too much when i entered law school.  they said that a law student's bestfriends are coffee and beer. true in my case because i do like coffee and beer (mind you, i never really liked coffee when i was young too, law school       brought me to coffee. maybe after this i'd make an entry for my "caffeine tolerance level" .) but now, it seems like beer doesn't like me anymore.     bluntly saying, i think it all began after my first year in law school. after the exam, we went out with my classmates and drank until the wee hours of the morning. a couple of drinking session...

niña's birthday bash last july 31, 2007 at their home..