Kate's Little Nook

@ k1 on dec. 17, '08; @ bohol on feb. 24 '08

grabbed this one from rizel. sensya dai, nindot man gud. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you  from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.  If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry the

the past two years have been tough.  it was a swirl and a twirl, a roller coaster.  now, as i sit here, having the opportunity to look back to that sad fate of my life, i can say i was indeed a troubled soul.  half of that "troubleness was to my contribution."  i was immature, naive and inexperienced.  but one should not take that as a cue to take advantage me. i let some people fool me, and i was fooled. i am beaming with contentment at this moment because at last, i am now thinking out of the box --- i am now out of the box. i learned many things: first, no one could help me but myself.  if i wanted to be out at the earliest possible time, i should have helped my self get out.  it was hard, but then again, what was done was done and everything's over now. second, at times when i was down, i learned to look at people in different facets.  you will really know who is with you and who is not with you. and you'll know that some don't give a damn at all, they j